“How Do I Find My Purpose? Start By Remembering Who You Are.”

“How Do I Find My Purpose? Start By Remembering Who You Are.”

If you’ve ever whispered “What’s my purpose?” while staring at the ceiling or crying in the car… you’re not lost.
You’re being called. 🧿

Purpose isn’t something you find outside of yourself.
It’s something you remember.
It’s a part of you that’s been buried beneath other people’s expectations.
Unhealed pain.
Survival mode.
And all the “shoulds” that were never truly yours.

Most of us weren’t taught to follow purpose.
We were taught to follow rules.
Get the degree.
Get the job.
Get the approval.
Smile and perform and push through.
But even after doing all that… something still feels off. 😞

That’s because purpose doesn’t live in your paycheck.
It lives in your peace. 🕊️

And real peace?
It shows up when your energy aligns with your truth.

When I started my own healing journey, I didn’t know I’d become a life coach.
I didn’t know I’d start a nonprofit.
I didn’t know I’d write a book.
I didn’t know I’d guide people through spiritual growth or create tools for healing and clarity.

But I knew one thing.
I wasn’t meant to play small. 💥

My name is Valyrica Lewis.
And I’ve walked this journey from survival to soul.
Not from a pedestal.
But from the pit.
I had to unlearn everything they told me I was supposed to be.
And find my way back to who I’ve always been. 👣

That’s why I wrote my book — Simplicity: Navigating Life Lessons in Identity, Spirituality, and Self-Discovery.
Because I knew I wasn’t the only one asking deep questions in silence.
I knew people like you were craving something real.
Something rooted.
Something honest. 🌱

Simplicity is for the person who’s outgrown who they had to be.
It’s for the one tired of chasing empty success.
It’s for the soul that wants alignment over approval. ✨

Inside the book, I share the shifts.
The breakdowns.
The moments that cracked me open.
And the sacred practices that helped me come home to myself. 🧘🏽♀️

So if you’ve been asking…
How do I find my purpose?

Start by asking:
🌟 When do I feel the most real?
📖 What parts of me feel like truth?
🌀 What stories shaped me — and which ones am I ready to release?
💫 What lights me up even when nobody’s watching?

Then follow that.

With your whole chest.
Because your soul is depending on it. ❤️🔥

You don’t need to have it all figured out.
You just need to start remembering who you really are.

And if you need support…
I’m here.
With coaching.
With community.
With my story.
And with my book. 

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